But speaking the truth in love, let us grow in every way into Him who is the head – Christ. – (Ephesians 4:15, HCSB)
No, we will speak the truth with love. We will grow to be like Christ in every way. He is the head. – (Ephesians 4:15, ERV)
Instead, by truth spoken in love, we are to grow in every way into Him – the Anointed One, the head. – (Ephesians 4:15, VOICE)
To be like Christ, we are called to speak the truth in love. The more we grow in Him, the more natural this becomes a part of who we are. Truth is necessary, but delivery matters. If we speak the truth without love, it can come across as harsh or mean, but when it is spoken in love, it is better received as it has no intent to harm. Correction, redirection, encouragement and more are all things that either fall on deaf ears or are received out of fear, rather than received and taken to heart when love is absent. The more we spend time with Christ, the more we grow to be like Him, and reflect His goodness and grace through love to those around us. May we ever seek the Lord to grow us more like Him, and listen to His leading so that we best know how to speak the truth with love.
Lord, help us speak truth,
that’s guided by love;
only good intent,
reflect God above.
Show us Lord Jesus,
Your love and Your grace;
so we give likewise,
throughout all our days.
In all that we do,
and all that we say;
let Your love guide us,
so in You, we stay.
Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You call us to speak the truth in love. Thank You that as we do, we grow more like You and can more clearly reflect Your heart to the world. Forgive us for the times that we have withheld love in what we have said, or have not spoken truth in Your loving ways. Teach us to seek You before we speak, and to listen to Your leading in what we say. Show us how to speak the truth in love in ways that make Your heart known to those around us. May many come into a lasting relationship with You. Be glorified O God, as we seek You to show us how to speak the truth in love in all things and at all times. Amen.
© Shannon Elizabeth Grabrick and Revelations in Writing, May 2011 – present
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. – 1 Corinthians 13:6-7