Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. – (Ephesians 4:32, NIV)
Be kind and loving to each other. Forgive each other the same as God forgave you through Christ. – (Ephesians 4:32, ERV)
Instead, be kind and compassionate. Graciously forgive one another just as God has forgiven you through the Anointed, our Liberating King. – (Ephesians 4:32, VOICE)
Being kind, compassionate and loving requires an intentional decision to extend what we have been given by God to those around us. We always have a choice as to how we will interact and respond to one another. Each time we choose kindness and compassion, we help another feel loved. Forgiveness is necessary, for we are told that we must forgive as we have been forgiven. We need Jesus to forgive this way, and must turn to Him for help again and again. As one who has received kindness, compassion and love when I have needed it most, I am compelled to seek the Lord to help me do likewise. The same is true with forgiveness. There are times I fall short and need to ask forgiveness for lacking the grace I needed to give. Likewise, there are situations and circumstances where we may have to choose to forgive again and again, as unforgiveness tries to creep and create bitterness. What seems to help the most is to not only forgive (meaning releasing the right to revenge or hold onto the hurt) and instead place all in God’s hands. It does not mean that we give people a pass to mistreat us, but rather we let go of the weight that unforgiveness creates in our heart and give it to God so that we can move on. Incredibly, when I slow down and seek to understand, I find that kindness and compassion rise up within me and I am better able to love. God is faithful to meet us as we seek Him, and He will equip us to love as He loves when we ask and depend on Him. May we ever seek the Lord to help us be compassionate and kind, extending love and forgiveness to all with whom we interact.
In love, we are called,
to seek God for all;
to give as He gives,
as grace He installs.
He gives compassion,
forgiveness and grace;
His love, unending,
throughout all our days.
He asks us the same,
to do as He does;
so His grace is known,
may all be in love.
Lead us, Lord Jesus,
to always be kind;
extend compassion,
it’s what You’ve in mind.
Forgive each other,
as He’s done for us;
may love ever lead,
to do as He does.
Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You give us kindness, compassion, forgiveness and love. Thank You that as we ask, You meet us where we are and show us Your goodness and grace that sets us free. Forgive us for the times that we have been lacking in any of these. Teach us to rely on You to provide what we need to extend the good You give, and to release the anger, hurt or frustration so that we can forgive as You forgive us. Show us how to love with kindness and compassion for all. May many come into a lasting relationship with You. Be glorified O God, as we seek You and trust You to lead us in You love in all things and at all times. Amen.
© Shannon Elizabeth Grabrick and Revelations in Writing, May 2011 – present
But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us – not by works of righteousness that we had done, but according to His mercy, through the washing of regeneration and renewal by the Holy Spirit. – Titus 3:4-5