The Perfect Parent

There is a fine line between granting a child room to grow, and maintaining godly expectations, so that they may be raised in the way that is right.  It is a challenge for anyone, be it with pets, progenies or pupils in a classroom, yet can you imagine what it must have been like for Mary and Joseph, raising the very Son of God?!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   In Luke, chapter two, verses 41-52, we are told the story of the time that Jesus stayed behind in the temple, without His parents’ knowledge of His whereabouts.  His absence caused fear and panic, triggering a three-day search, ending in Jesus being found, seated in the temple courts among the teachers of the time.  Though His mother’s initial reaction was basically, “Why would you do this to us?”  Her anger gave way to awe, as she recognized the remarkable found in her Son, as He sat speaking with scholarly wisdom among magnificent minds.  Jesus, being without sin, submitted to His parents and returned with them in obedience, and continued to “grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.”  Mary “treasured all these things in her heart.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 My own progenies love the Lord.  They also love video games.  There is much room for guidance as to what is good and pleasing to God, and what is not in any way beneficial for the building of their character.  Though many things are permissible, not all things are beneficial.  At not quite twelve, both guidance and room to grow, must be given.  On my own, I am at a serious lack as to how to balance these things.  Daily, hourly really, I need His wisdom and help to show me how to lead and guide my guys in the way that is best.  Perfection does not exist in parenting, so I am so thankful for His grace that covers my shortcomings.  He is our loving Father, and remains in that role, no matter our age.  Be encouraged, for He is our perfect parenting partner, and He is willing to lead and guide us as we go, if we choose to trust in Him.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Raise up a child,Boys for post photo-10
in the way to go;
and when they’re old,
their wisdom shall show.
He is faithful,
to remain with us;
to take our hand,
and lovingly bless.
He will lead us,
and show us the way;
to guide our kids,
so in Him they’ll stay.
Trust in the Lord,
with all of our heart;
ask for His grace,
and wisdom impart.
All that we ask,
in faith and in truth;
He will answer,
He shall lead us through.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You are the only perfect parent.  Thank You that You are available and willing to show us the way, as we lead and guide those whom we are given charge.  Thank You for trusting us with the care of Your created, and help us to take our roles seriously.  Forgive us for our frustrations or lack of fortitude to fight for that which You call us to do, and please strengthen us to hear and answer all that You are asking.  May we love well the next generation for You, and may many come to know You in a deep and meaningful way.  May lives be changed and families restored, through the grace given by the young.  Be exalted in all that we say and do.  Amen.
© Shannon Elizabeth Moreno and Revelations in Writing, May 2011 – present.

10 Comments

  1. I think it is much better to daily avail ourselves of God’s grace and wisdom than to set hard rules and regulations regarding such things as entertainment for ourselves and our children.

    I know many who just abstain from all kinds of things and prevent their children from many things as well in an effort to protect them. The problem in setting severe rules in place is that it subtly turns our attention from looking to the Father for help to looking to ourselves and our ability to keep rules and regulations. If we are moderately successful in keeping rules then we face a new battle with pride. If we are not very disciplined rule keepers, then we wallow in self-condemnation.

  2. I agree with you cos i think there is no perfect parent, they all need His grace to be able to train up their boys and girls

  3. Thank you … That was exactly what I needed to read today, as we pray and seek Him on how to disciple the blessings He has given us to parent.
    I so appreciate it. It is simple … Love Him, trust Him, seek Him … He is such an amazing God 😊

    • Thank you, friend. We are all in it together. 🙂 I am so thankful that we have Him to turn to for leadership. Blessings to you as you raise your daughter well!

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